The Blowjob Reinterpreted in Five Steps
New Book Offers Oral Insight
The Blowjob Reinterpreted in Five Steps, says new book from Author
Self educated Sexologist and Relationship Coaxer Jenna Brett Ashley accidentally fell into her career as Counselor and Author when friends and exes dared her, “Since you’re so great at giving a Blowjob, then share your Blowjob secrets with us, and write about it!”
After years of extensive research both at the library and ‘in the field,’ Jenna is now introducing to the world her eBook which only took six weeks to write when she finally got her ‘head’ into the game. Entitled “Best Blow Job in Five Steps: The Art and Science of Mind-blowing Fellatio,” it’s a hands on tool for both men and women about the raw details of ‘Sex Energetics’ together with a Five Step Process, ‘The Five T’s,’ of performing a completely focused and very thorough oral sex experience that will leave your lover in a state that can only be described as blown away and bewildered.
With proven results as an exclusive Rapid Results Relationship Sexpert to the super shy but ultra intrigued, Jenna uses her collective knowledge of how sexual energy is ordered and the differences between men’s sexual energy rhythms and women’s sexual energy rhythms in a forum where couples feel comfortable opening up about their issues. According to Jenna, “After an initial period of excitement, intimacy awareness tends to break down and many couples experience feelings of ‘not being on the same page,’ and so I find that a kind of re-introduction is vital in order to create truly satisfying sensual encounters.”
Because Jenna is not a clinical doctor, couples don’t feel the claustrophobic pressure of being judged in the environment of a therapist’s office ” which to some can be quite intimidating. Instead, Jenna is more like the uninhibited, but very intuitive friend that tags along for dinner divulging her latest sexual innovations, engaging everyone at the table to share their feelings and reactions to their own intimate moments.
It was these situations with friends – both men and women – who felt comfortable enough to reach out and ask for her ‘blowjob and sex secrets’ in hopes of heating things up in the bedroom, that led Jenna to realize that she may be on to something.
“Realizing that I had become the Blowjob Queen, I decided to finally take my friends and clients advice and get it down on paper. The tipping point was the number of Thank-you notes and emails I had received applauding the practicality of my advice. It was important for me to share my knowledge, but I wanted to present an integrated view of sexual intimacy that respected the perspectives of both genders,” says Jenna. “A richer language focused on primal sexual energy patterns with which we are all blessed is needed in order to foster breakthrough sexual experiences, and it doesn’t matter if you met 10 hours ago or ten years. Those patterns still exist.”
In an environment where we are all sexual subjects, Jenna was adamant in making sure her eBook reflected both the hands-on art and physiological science of fellatio. She educates and engages the reader through a detailed account of the mechanics and energy flow of oral sex through a five step process from start to finish – The Five T’s of giving Mind-blowing Fellatio. “I think I’ve searched for an alternative way to think about sexuality for most of my adult life, so I naturally explored and experimented with different sexual modalities starting in my college years. But I think what really focused my research with fellatio was the more experienced perspective I would bring with me when I revisited specific sexual energy philosophies, so my point of view on oral sex developed over a period of years and several boyfriends. But the research for this eBook required weeks of reorganizing some very seminal truths about who we are as unique and individual beings,” says Jenna. “I think in this so-called pleasure culture we are in grave need of a redefinition and refinement of how sex is perceived. Oral sex, particularly fellatio, doesn’t necessarily need to be looked at as a ‘job’ but rather as a beautiful and powerful part of intimacy.”
But unlike many of us, Jenna always felt open to communicate when it came to sensual sexuality in spite of the fact the she didn’t give her first blow job until she was eighteen years old when she was dating her high school sweetheart with whom she had a reliable and open line of communication. He was able to ‘guide’ her indicating the ’emphasis’ he craved the most. “I wasn’t weirded out or nervous even as an oral sex neophyte. We were both shocked at how intense and thorough I was, but in all honesty, in retrospect, it was his reaction to me ” the noises and groans ” that made me want to make it so utterly unforgettable. It was a feeling that I didn’t expect ” intense primal power, yet blissful and gratifying. I was never the same person to him after that. He basically worshipped me, not knowing that he had unleashed the blowjob savant in me!”
But it wasn’t just Jenna’s high school sweetheart that taught her how to give fellatio. She researched the art of fellatio from medical books at the library. She remembers being hunkered down in a cubicle asking herself – if she had this kind of apparatus between her legs, what would she want? How would this feel? How would that feel? So she researched the purpose of each of the parts that make up a man’s supposedly biggest part, giving her a solid anatomical understanding of the inner and outer workings of the penis while also taking into account her comfort zones in developing a mastery of style and technique. “But my favorite part is still figuring out how to exceed a guy’s expectations. It’s always extremely rewarding for me, as a professional mentor to couples to hear a client thank me for ‘getting it’ ” that’s still the most satisfying part of my counseling practice.”
The Best Blowjob in Five Steps: The Art and Science of Mind-blowing Fellatio” is available for immediate download for $33.96 to any Windows based operating system at: www.bestblowjobinfivesteps.com.
Jenna continues to help couples wishing to achieve breakthrough intimacy experiences and is available on an appointment only basis. She can be reached at: www.jennabrettashley.com
