Can you really hook up during video sex chat over at SlapperCams.com?
If you’ve ever watched one porn video, you’ve pretty much watched them all. It’s all too predictable. You can tell that when the guy delivers the pizza, there’s the hole in the pizza box where his dick goes and guess what happens to the female customer? And did you notice that it’s always a female customer? It’s not the overweight, unemployed guy in his 20s with nasty dreadlocks, and who doesn’t take a shower. It’s always a hot, tight blonde that looks like she works out and has nothing better to do in the middle of a workweek, right?
The premises of these porn videos are laughably predictable, but it’s always a hot blonde and when she sees that cock in the middle of the pizza, what do you think she does? Again, all too predictable. All too formulaic. Well, you don’t get any of that when you engage in video sex chat sessions. You really don’t. Every discussion is different from the previous discussion, and this is why a lot of people find it such a refreshing change from the typical menu of adult entertainment that has been the standard fare for many years.
With that said, you have to understand that a lot of guys are beginning to wonder if there is something more to this type of entertainment. Is there something more than telling the chick at the other end to take off her panties, or to play with herself, or possibly even suck her boyfriend’s dick for your entertainment? Can you go beyond that?
Because if you think about it. It can easily descend into the level of a puppet show. Sure, it’s a sexy puppet show and all sorts of naughty, freaky things are happening but ultimately, it’s a puppet show. Just as you pull some strings to make the puppet move, you type in some words to make the model do whatever you want her to do. There’s really not that much interaction there, as far as getting the best performance out or exploring her personality. If you really want to take things to the next level, you need to start working on hooking up with these models.
Don’t laugh, it’s possible
A lot of guys instinctively laugh when they are told that they can actually hook up with that hot, tight, blonde model that they see on the typical video sex chat website or even one of them super hot Snapchat Sluts that want to chat with so, so badly. They roll their eyes and then they laugh out loud. It’s like being told that unicorns exist. It’s like being told that you just saw Elvis Presley come out of the bathroom, or that you saw Tupac at your buddy’s place. People would look at you like you sprouted a second head. What the fuck’s wrong with you, that’s probably what they are thinking.
Well, there’s a method to the madness because if you automatically assume that these women are out of bounds and are completely out of your league, then guess what will happen? That’s right, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. They would be out of your reach. There’s no way in hell you could hook up with them, because let’s face it, you counted yourself out already. You already ruled yourself out from possibly hooking up with these women. So if you are serious about hooking up with video sex chat models, or any other type of online adult entertainer, follow the steps below.
Believe that you can actually hook up
The second step of course, is to be that person. This is where guys totally fail. A lot of guys can get their minds around believing that it is possible to hook up with a video sex chat model in the same way as some guys hook up with strippers. In fact, if you hang out at any strip joint, you’d quickly realize that a lot of guys there fuck a lot of chicks.
In fact, a lot of chicks there fuck the same guy, so it’s not out of the realm of possibility. But the problem here is the second type of belief. You need to take things to another level. That second level is you have to believe that you’re that guy. It’s one thing to believe that some guys are fucking strippers or online sex cam models, it’s another to actually believe that you’re the guy who’s next in line. You’re the guy who’s going to get his dick sucked.
Do you see how this works? So you have to make that breakthrough. You have to get to that level for progress to take place.
Step #3: Learn how to read her
Let me tell you, most people are open books, seriously. Excellent negotiators are able to negotiate awesome deals because they’re able to send out signals that the other party blindly or cluelessly bounce back to them. They send out signals, they’re testing the other side, and once they detect a certain signal pattern, they start hammering the other side until they get the deal that they’re looking for.
The same applies to communicating with women. You have to understand that most women are addicted to some level of attention or other. They like attention. They like to be noticed. They don’t want to fall between the cracks. They don’t want to be another face in the crowd. This is a very basic human need. All of us are guilty of this, so there’s no shame in that game.
Now, pay attention. Once you give her your attention, you would notice that with certain things that you do, she seems to pay attention. It’s your job to detect her pattern. That’s how you read her. When you see that certain things get her attention, bombard her more of those things. Of course, you can’t be obvious about it. You can’t come off as manipulative or creepy about it. But you just need to give her more of what she’s looking for until she becomes really, really comfortable.
That’s all there is. That’s how you hook up because after that, you just play it by ear. You let nature take its course. In many cases, she’s the one who asks you for your number. It’s all about establishing a rapport because let me tell you, people all over the world are essentially the same.
We all have the same basic human drives and human needs. We may look different. We may drive different cars. Some of us don’t have cars at all. Some have a lot of money, others don’t. Some speak other languages, others don’t. Some believe in certain things, others don’t, and so on and so forth.
When you dig beyond or beneath these seeming differences, we’re all the same. If you’re able to lock in to that core commonality that all of us have, you’re going to get so much pussy from so many places you would not know what to do.
